Navigating Post-Pandemic Life Challenges

Well I am not even sure if I should post this, write this or make it public or not? Life has been challenging since March. I am not sure if it is work related, just me, or life and people in general. I will let you be the judge.

I have been really struggling with dealing with work and personal life. Pre-pandemic I have always been able to find an outlet and be able to talk with a friend or two in person. Have always have had at least one sounding board so to speak. The Pandemic hit and that went away. I have not had that outlet. The social distancing guide lines prevented visiting, prevented getting out and doing things and prevented socializing. And in some ways that was ok. Less people equaled less interactions, less interactions amounted to less stress less conflicts.

Post pandemic and restrictions being lifted and life getting back to normal you would think that life would be better. I am finding that this is not the case. I am not sure about you or any one else but the lack of interactions seems to have created a problem. I think I have forgotten how to “people” and I think other people have forgotten how to people to. My ability to resolve conflicts seem to have gone away, my ability to interact has been diminished. I struggle daily with the simple daily interactions of life.

I am also dealing with other personal things which I am not going to delve into here. These things are to personal to post publicly, but I am working on them. I am re-evaluating just who I am, where I have been, where I am going. And there are days where I do not think I recognize myself. Or maybe my self identification is incorrect. I am re-working personal boundaries, re-working how I interact with the world. Life goes forward not backward.

So my dear readers, friends please stand by do not adjust your sets. I am still here. Still will continue to write when I can and write about the things I feel safe writing publicly about. Consider this a check in “How Are You Doing?” If your inclined drop a line or two. Check in on the people who are in your circle. Remember to that possibly we are all struggling to regain normalcy as this pandemic situation finally dies out.

Wolfsong Gathering

Day One

I left work around 2:30 AM the car was all ready packed up and ready to go. I hit Tim’s for a coffee and a muffin and a quick stop at the bank for some cash and was off and running.

This will be my first May 24 long week-end at Magic Morn, normally I am some where else, but this year the tides changed. The trip out was non-eventful, and minimal traffic. Although I did stop midpoint to grab a two hour power nap. I probably could have made it out in one shot but I needed to get a few last minutes supplies. Food is an important thing.
I arrived onsite at about 9:30 am on Friday and it looks like I am the early bird. I prattle around for about an hour decompressing before setting up camp in my usual spot for Ancestorfest (Wolfsong II). It is a decently shaded spot along the tree line until about midday and it is probably the closest spot I can get to the fire pit, which is handy when you are walking back to your tent in the dark. I get my tent set up with bedroll etc and decide to leave the rest in the car till later as sleep is still needed. Whilst I was setting up got a message from Lisa asking if that was me she saw driving in to which I give a yes response. She replies back.. cool I will see you when I am done feeding the horses.

Around noon it is starting to get really warm, and windy. Lisa had come down to say Hi and I decide to try lay down for a nap. I toss and turn in the heat, wind has really picked up, and my tent blew in but recovered from it. Then that happened again… so much for withstanding 30 kph winds. Well fuck me I decide to move the tent.

At this point another fester has shown up and starts to set up near me, we exchange hellos and then I head off to scope out other set up spots. I find a perfect shaded spot in the woods between the Underworld larp site and Faerie camp. The wind is not penetrating the trees as bad here. The downside of this site there are lots of bugs, and it is far from the fire pit. Thankfully I have note fully unloaded the car so moving was not difficult, save for the fact I managed to kill my car battery. Rule 2 of camping bring booster cables cause you just never know when you or someone else may need a boost. I set up fully this time as I am about 200 feet from where the car is now and I really don’t want to truck stuff in later. Dang bugs and I have no bug spray.

I still cannot sleep. I guess to many tims on my way here. Kim Morgan is back on site and we chat for a while while chatting discover how many have past in the Pagan community over the last year. Death toll has been high. We also chat about the pagan community in general.

Ok one more time try grab some sleep after feeding my face and hydrating. It is now about 5:30 in the afternoon. Success finally! Only to be woken at midnight by a migraine. Damnit. I fumble in tent to find flashlight and Scarf down some pain meds, allergy meds and fire up stove to steam my head. Meanwhile I hear drumming….people hailing… laughter and drums. Darn freaking migraine I am in no shape to people right now. Rule 3 leave your flashlight where it can be found easily in the dark. Migraine gone after about an hour. But I am physically drained by the pain it caused. I go back to bed and wake up at 7:30 am, scarf down some more pain/allergy meds and on to day two.

Fuel saving tips.

With rising gas prices we all want to lower our fuel bill and increase fuel efficiency. These are some things that I have learned over the last few years and they are simple things some may cost you money up front some will cost you nothing.

Free things to help you save

  • regularly check your tire pressures and make sure they are correct.
  • keep a record of your fuel economy, doing this serves several purposes. It may alert you to a problem if your fuel economy suddenly or gradually gets worse. It also makes you conscious of your driving.
  • To use cruise or not. Cruise control in theory should make your vehicle more fuel efficient. I have found it does not. It is not adaptive it does not anticipate road conditions with respect to up hill grades or cornering. Cruise will make every attempt to maintain speed and keep applying fuel so it can do so.
  • to use AC or not. In my current vehicle I have not noticed any fuel efficiency difference between when I use AC or not. However this does not mean there cannot be differences. People have a tendency to idle their vehicle more in summer so they can keep their car cool.
  • Less idling. Leaving your car run to cool it/heat it will cause you to burn more fuel
  • Do not use the drive through, get out and walk in, if you cannot do that if you know you are going to be stopped and idling for more than 60 seconds shut your car off

Sage Advice

So you’re not where your want to be.
You feel like your supposed to be somewhere else.
Let’s say you could snap your fingers and be exactly where you wanted to be
I bet you would still feel that way, not in the right place.
The point is you can get so hung up on where you would rather be
that you have forgotten how to make the most of where you are.
Take a break from worrying about what you cannot control
and live a little.

What is (NEO)Paganism

Stone altar with Celtic spirals, a pentagram, runes, candle, and natural elements in forest

What Is Modern Paganism?

Modern Paganism, often called Contemporary Paganism or Neopaganism, is not one single religion with one church, one holy book, or one universal set of beliefs. It is better understood as a family of modern religious and spiritual movements that draw inspiration from pre-Christian, folk, earth-based, polytheistic, animist, magical, devotional, and nature-centred traditions.1

Some Pagans are reconstructionist, trying to rebuild older traditions as carefully as possible from historical, archaeological, linguistic, and literary sources. Others are eclectic, drawing from several streams of practice and building a living path that fits their own experience, land, ethics, and devotional life. Britannica describes modern Pagan approaches as ranging from attempts to imitate older traditions with precision to more openly eclectic use of historical and archaeological material.1

That means two Pagans can both be sincerely Pagan and still practice very differently.

Pagan, Neopagan, or Modern Pagan?

The word “pagan” has a complicated history. In Christian usage, it was often used for people and religions outside the Abrahamic framework, especially those that did not worship the God of Abraham. Historically, the word often carried negative or dismissive meaning. In modern usage, however, many people have reclaimed “Pagan” as a chosen religious or spiritual identity.2

The word “Neopagan” has often been used to distinguish modern Pagan movements from ancient pre-Christian religions. Some people still use it comfortably. Others avoid it because the “neo” can feel like it separates modern practitioners too sharply from the older traditions that inspire them.

For that reason, “Modern Paganism” or “Contemporary Paganism” is often the cleaner term. It acknowledges the old roots without pretending that every ancient practice survived unchanged into the present day.

What Do Modern Pagans Believe?

There is no single Pagan creed. Some Pagans are polytheists who honour many gods. Some are animists who understand the world as full of spirit, presence, and relationship. Some are pantheists, seeing divinity in the living universe itself. Some work with ancestors, land spirits, seasonal cycles, ritual, magic, myth, or devotional practice. Some are atheistic or symbolic in how they understand deity. Britannica notes that modern Pagan belief can include polytheistic, pantheistic, monotheistic, and even atheistic approaches.1

That diversity can be confusing from the outside, but it is one of the central realities of Modern Paganism. Paganism is not held together by uniform doctrine. It is more often held together by practice, relationship, ritual, season, myth, land, and lived experience.

Examples of Modern Pagan Paths

Modern Paganism can include Wicca, Druidry, Heathenry, Hellenic practice, Roman reconstructionism, Kemetic practice, Goddess spirituality, animist practice, and many eclectic solitary paths. Not everyone in those communities uses the word “Pagan,” and not every Pagan fits neatly into one named tradition.

Wicca is one of the best-known modern Pagan religions. Its modern public form is usually traced to Gerald Gardner in 20th-century Britain, though it drew from older folklore, ceremonial magic, occult, and religious material.3 Druidry draws inspiration from Celtic and western European sources. Heathenry draws from Germanic and Norse pre-Christian traditions. Reconstructionist paths generally place more weight on historical source material, while eclectic paths tend to place more weight on personal practice, adaptation, and living spirituality.

Is Paganism Recognized as a Religion in Canada?

The better answer is: not as one single centralized religion, but Pagan and Pagan-adjacent traditions can be recognized or protected in specific legal, institutional, and human-rights contexts.

Canada does not operate by keeping one simple master list of “real religions” for ordinary human-rights purposes. In Ontario, human-rights protection uses the category of “creed,” which includes religion but is interpreted broadly. The Ontario Human Rights Commission says that belief in one God, many gods, or any god at all is not required for a belief system to potentially qualify as a religion or creed. It also notes that newer religions or creeds may be assessed case by case.4

Statistics Canada also includes Pagan-related categories in its 2021 religion classification system. These include Pagan, Druidic, Neopagan, Wiccan, and other Pagan beliefs and spiritual traditions.5 That does not make Paganism one organized institution, but it does show that Pagan identities are visible enough in Canada to be counted in national religious data.

The Canadian Armed Forces chaplaincy system states that chaplains support the spiritual, religious, and pastoral care of members and their families regardless of religious affiliation, practice, or belief.6 Correctional Service Canada also provides chaplaincy services to help offenders observe religious and spiritual practices, and its policy describes chaplaincy services as responding to religious and spiritual needs regardless of belief.7

In plain language: Paganism in Canada is not one officially centralized religion, but sincere Pagan religious or spiritual practice may still be protected, counted, accommodated, or supported depending on the setting.

Why the Question Gets Messy

The confusion comes from the fact that Paganism is an umbrella term. Christianity has denominations. Buddhism has schools. Hinduism contains many philosophies and devotional streams. Paganism is even looser than that in many places, especially in North America.

There is no Pagan pope, no Pagan Vatican, no single Pagan council, and no one body that speaks for all Pagans. A Wiccan coven, a Heathen kindred, a Druid grove, a solitary devotional practitioner, and an eclectic kitchen witch may all sit somewhere under the broad Pagan umbrella, while still disagreeing on theology, ritual, ethics, history, politics, and language.

That does not make Paganism fake. It makes it decentralized.

So What Is a Pagan?

A Pagan, in the modern sense, is usually someone whose religious or spiritual life is rooted outside the dominant Abrahamic framework and who draws meaning from older, earth-centred, polytheistic, animist, magical, ancestral, or seasonal ways of understanding the world.

That definition will not satisfy everyone. No definition will. But it is honest enough to hold the centre without pretending there is only one way to walk the path.

Modern Paganism is not ancient religion copied and pasted into the present. It is not fantasy, aesthetic, or rebellion for its own sake. At its best, it is a living relationship with land, spirit, season, memory, myth, and practice.

And for many of us, that is enough.

Godspeed.


Sources

  1. Encyclopaedia Britannica, “Modern Paganism.” https://www.britannica.com/topic/modern-Paganism
  2. Encyclopaedia Britannica, “Paganism.” https://www.britannica.com/topic/paganism
  3. Encyclopaedia Britannica, “Wicca.” https://www.britannica.com/topic/Wicca
  4. Ontario Human Rights Commission, “Policy on preventing discrimination based on creed — 4. Creed.” https://www.ohrc.on.ca/en/policy-preventing-discrimination-based-creed/4-creed
  5. Statistics Canada, “List of Religions 2021 — 813 Pagan beliefs and spiritual traditions.” https://www23.statcan.gc.ca/imdb/p3VD.pl?CLV=2&CPV=813&CST=01042021&CVD=1311624&Function=getVD&MLV=4&TVD=1311612
  6. Government of Canada, “The Royal Canadian Chaplain Service.” https://www.canada.ca/en/department-national-defence/programs/royal-canadian-chaplain.html
  7. Correctional Service Canada, “Commissioner’s Directive 750: Chaplaincy Services.” https://www.canada.ca/en/correctional-service/corporate/acts-regulations-policy/commissioners-directives/750.html

Omnis

Today I sat down and watched the 2018 version of “Fahrenheit 451” and so many thoughts poured into my mind and it is difficult for my fingers to keep up to my thought processes as I type this out. For the uninitiated the movie is about complete total censorship and the control of thought. for a more detailed break down I suggest if your interested to look up a synopsis or watch the move.

For my self at this time so man things have sprung to mind so many thought processes. I some what understand where the author of the book was going. Written word, independent thought, not blindly going where others want to lead you. “Independent thought” these things scare people. If you have the ability to write well they fear your words as words can be a weapon. Especially if they cannot dominate your thought process and censor you. If you are to independent in your thought, if they cannot control you, if you do not follow blindly without question you become a liability, you are no longer a team player. Your words might just waken other people and cause descension and they cannot have that because they then lose control.

The premise for most censorships is about control. Again going back to the movie the burning of books, the banning of independent thought was initially supported as the removal of certain books was thought good because it removed controversy, removed harmful thought and what people thought and how they behaved. It was believed that it would increase happiness. But in reality it caused the opposite.

Myths

What are your favorite myths, legends or stories? The ones that are not common knowledge, that you would not necessarily find in print. always looking to share materials and to grow knowledge. The things to share while sitting around the campfire with a few good friends.

Have one send it to me via e-mail or post it in a comment. My e-mail address is kevin@unpluggedpagan.com

Music in review

I would like to take the opportunity to talk about Raven Black an amazing artist I met years ago at Magik Morn near Kawartha Lakes Ontario . I was drawn to the sound of her voice, raw but real. I have had opportunity to provide drum accompaniment while she performed at Stoneheart out in Coehill Ontario.

This is the bio taken from her ReverbNation account. I would encourage you to take a listen to her album there. Link to listen is at the bottom.

“Raven Black has been playing and composing music since 2008
She’s previously played in many cover bands but is a force to be reckoned with. In 2003 she moved to London ontario and found a kindred spirit Shawn Lint his attitude and haunting Melodic sound gives a whole lot of layers that open each song like a drug we leave you wanting more. Both of them continues to play intensely with love for music. Her influences are folk,country rock and blues inspired. She plays with all of her body and soul! She debuted her self-titled independent CD called Raven Black as an she has sold over 6000 copies!. just by word of I mouth!”