Drums are not just a Mans tool.
The histories of the Egyptian, , Semetic, Sumerian and the Wahinda peoples tell us differently. Egyptian Girls attended various Gods whilst they were using these instruments. Women of the Semetic tribes almost exclusively used drums for singing and dancing at moon rituals. In Summeria there is an account of the Royal Granddaughter drumming in the Temple of the Moon in 2280 B.C.E. Lastly The Wahinda men of East Africa for them it is considered a death wish to even look at a drum. So much so they will only carry it at night, more preferably during the darkest of nights where no moon is present in the sky, so it may not be seen.